Validating all feelings

1–2 anniEmotional WellbeingNessun materiale necessario

When your child shows any emotion, acknowledge it before trying to fix or change it. Say 'I see you're feeling angry' or 'You're sad right now.' Sit with them for a moment before offering solutions. This shows your child that all feelings are acceptable, even if all behaviors are not. It takes just a few seconds but has lasting impact.

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Validating all feelings

Come svolgere questa attività

When your child shows any emotion, acknowledge it before trying to fix or change it. Say 'I see you're feeling angry' or 'You're sad right now.' Sit with them for a moment before offering solutions. This shows your child that all feelings are acceptable, even if all behaviors are not. It takes just a few seconds but has lasting impact.

Perché funziona

Validation is a core component of emotion coaching, which significantly improves children's emotional intelligence. When caregivers validate emotions, children develop better emotional recognition and regulation skills. Students with higher emotional intelligence show significantly better academic performance and enhanced study habits (Brackett, Rivers, & Salovey, 2011). This activity builds the foundation for healthy emotional expression.

Consigli per i genitori

Separate feelings from behaviors by saying things like 'You're angry, but we don't hit.' Avoid saying 'You're fine' or 'Don't cry' which dismiss emotions. Stay calm yourself so your child can use you as a model for regulation.

Materiali necessari

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Metodi di apprendimento

Language-Rich EnvironmentImitation and ModelingBeginning Symbolic Play

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